The art of accepting humiliation! [PART 1]

While browsing through the ocean of blogs in the net......

I was frequently hit by many "how to...." series!

I hate the very idea of advice......be it giving or taking.....

what effect is it going to have anyway?.......So I

shuddered at a thought of giving advices ,in a blog.

When does a person gives advices?............

when he/she is perfect[or atleast ,nearperfect] in

something......And instantly,a whacky thought stroke me.

I'm good at getting mokkais and resisting them!?

.......hey ...wait...don't u go laughing at me....if u people

would give a little thought.....may be u would realize that

its not an easy job after all......so here I go....

• who cares ? technique:

This is a technique, that could actually work!....

Try remembering the situation,when u were caught up

for a stupidest act , u did. And ur whole class is laughing

at u.Deep down in our heart, we would expect the whole

ground to open up and swallow us....But outside, we

have to act as if ,it did not affect the slightest of our

soul....

Stand supreme, in front of the friends and act as if

u r going to receive a nobelprize!.And use catchy

phrases like "So what?"....."it happens u know!".....

Project urself as a person who doesn't care a damn

about the society or the pressure it gives......

• The laughing back technique:

I learned this technique , from my chemistry professor

.......such a niceperson....but not too good in teaching...

..so he had problems withstudents....almost nobody

would listen to the class and all his sessions became a

mess.....also the students started shouting and

laughing in his classes.....I pitiedhim................and

one day it went out of control.....he looked like ,

he was going to burst.....I thought someone would get

suspended that day....But what he did really surprised

all of us....He stopped teaching ,turned back and started

laughing.....staring straight in our faces.

To be honest,we were all shocked.That smile had

thousand hidden meanings in it.And ,still now I

cannot phrase it in words....And we all felt very

humiliated!

But ...students r always students......the yelping and

the laughing continued.....but the level certainly reduced.....


Try this stratergy also, in desperate times....

(more of them are about to follow................

as and when I remember them)

-dobby

Live-saving doctors or death causing monsters!

One of my neighbors got admitted in a government hospital, for her childbirth.

It was a normal delivery...but the sister who was in shift wrote it as a cesarian and

left, just because she has to go home early.

Anyway by gods grace it was a normal delivery...but as soon as they saw the baby

they were shocked because they found a deep cut on the new born's face.

When the parents enquired about it, the doctor had coolly said that, the baby had

a small tumor and that we operated it...But the reality was, the doctor

accidentally put the knife on the baby's face while taking it out.....

This is the height of carelessness!

Now the baby will have the mark on its face, throughout its lifetime…..We cannot

prevent natural fallacies, but intentional mistakes like this are too

disheartening…

I always had extreme respect for two professions!

Doctors and teachers [These cannot be called as professions, but services!]

But now, hospitals have become like butcher’s shop ….just cutting and

stitching…..human beings are no more than mere subjects…..a solid piece of flesh

or a simple toy put forth in front of them….

• How can people be so heartless???

• How can humans be so mechanized???

• How can people love a mere paper[money] than a human life???

• Why don’t they think that one day they are answerable to the almighty to

each and every deed they perform???

Life is beautiful [or is it?!]

Modern world…….i-gadgets,…showbiz,…child prodigies,….entrepreneurs,….pizza,….mobiles,….tech-saavies...

...perfect people….,perfect education…..,perfect dressing....a world full of ideal people....

Ya…..man tries to achieve idealization in all fields and lo! he's achieving it!

Is this all, the world is about???..

NOoo...There's the other hidden side of the coin.

The world with hunger, poverty, illiteracy, and starvation deaths!!

While one end of the people celebrate their birthdays, with chocolate cakes spilled up, all over the floor.... there's the other side, doing food hunting in garbages and gutters.

These two extremities fascinate me a lot.

Anything that gives financial profit is considered to be ethically acceptable nowadays.

People are trained to sit, move, eat and act in interviews and strangely enough, they expect originality at the final reviews.

So what am I to do?

Sit and rejoice with the happy lot
(or)
Strive to improve the situation of the unhappy lot.

Discipline, obedience, principles, culture, honesty, privacy are considered to be outdated and unfashionable these days.

I want my environment to be clean.

Not just the physical cleanliness… I want clean hearts around me…

Cleansing is what the world needs at present, more than anything else.

Reminiscence - HarryPotter Series

Harry potter series!

wow ! , it was like the other world for me.The virtual world

that I was living ,all these years.Now that its over,I miss so many things .

The trio's innocence, Ron's comedy, Fred n george's deadly humor,Ginny's

attitude, Hermione's wits, molly's tenderness, Arthur's funny musings,

Dumbledore's guidance, Hagrid's coziness, McGonagal's strictness....peeves' nasty

behaviour....Lee Jordan's commentry...Quidditch,Halloween, great

hall,feast.....ah! its a never ending list!!!........its like saying good bye for my good

old friends and the grand Weasly family...

There are two things that I really admired about the lastbook-THE DEATHLY

HALLOWS.

• J.K.Rowling never made Harry use the killing curse.

She has a great admiration and respect for human values,

which is really scarce these days.

• And the concept of jinxing Voldemort's name.[Bloody Brilliant].

And , it's her brilliance in fabricating such a complex story in a simple manner

has gained her this extreme fame,which she rightly deserves.

And, her greatest achievement is bringing "Reality in Fiction!"

Hats off to her........

The Drama Queen:

All my friends....at college said, that I was a bad actress. Be it, faking to a mam, about doing the assignment...or cutting classes..I was a bad pretender. My guilt will always be reflected in those big bulgy eyes of mine and I wear my emotions on my sleeves...It would be that obvious.I was tired of everybody teasing me to be a "always-be-goodie".

So, I decided to show them all, ......that I can do ....cool stuff too. On that very fine day[or perhaps not!], we finished our cycle tests and had to attend regular class that afternoon. But ,I slowly slipped after my cycle tests, determined that I would go home,cutting the class. But sadly, there was no bus.But I was determined to escape from the boring sessions. Some of my friends accompanied me and we all walked to the junction, inspite of the blazing sun.

I was so happy that, finally.... after fourteen years of my educative journey,I was able to cut three solid hours of class. Just then, fate came in the shape of a car.As I was admiring the beauty of the car,the car stopped,just in front of me.Out came, the director of our college.His eyes fired with rage. We all stood frozen there.I laughed at my fate.Most of my friends have already escaped in a heavily crowded bus, that came five minutes before.

But I hate travelling in a crowded bus.Besides, it seemed too dangerous.The bus was literally hanging from one-side. And thats why I was caught. He shouted badly at us.Rather than his words, being caught like a red-handed thief hurt me more.It was really painful to take up the humiliation.And I thought,"if this is wat, it takes for being a cool gal. I'd rather be uncool."

And I wondered......why is it always me?!.....everybody does mistakes and gets over it. But, even if I think about doing something wrong....I get caught.....and,only then it hit me....why did I give myself upto peer pressure?........god wants me to be good......and I stopped following the common herd and started being the "real-unique-myself" From that day I ceased acting, knowing that I stink at it. And also, I liked being myself.But fate never left me!!! To be continued........

My first blog

why pink?! [Initially my template was pink ...now changed]

Out of all the templates available for blogs..I choose this one, instantly. The other day, my cousin told me that pink is the favourite color of girls. But I laughed over it.How can a color be related to sex? Then why did I select pink now?....bcos I wanted my blog to sound unofficial ...and something which gives fun to all those who read it.... and pink sounded like fun to me...and this is the history of me starting a blog-"Just like that"

WARNING:

• Don't try to get any useful stuff from my blog..bcos u ain't goin to get any!

• This is a blog, for those who hav extreme sense of tolerance.

• But u might find something interesting and exciting ,now and then.